Sunday, May 17, 2009

E.T. phone home.

What a day my last day in Florida.
Plans were to go to Miami Beach and party, but my throat was not in a partymood.
Since Fridaynight my I wasn't feeling too good. And I felt worse on Saturday. I could hardly swallow, I felt nocious after eating something, I was dizzy and I had a terrible headache.
I felt tired all the time and could sleep anywhere.
Lilly still felt bad, for three days now she had no voice at all and she couldn't swallow a thing, not even her own spit.
But I guess she felt bad for being sick while I'm here on my holiday that she took me to the beach for 2 hours.
But at the beach, I was not feeling too good. Sitting in the sun only made my headache worse and I felt like I was burning even though I applied sunscreen 5 times in an hour. And at the same time I felt cold and had goosebumps.
Not a good sign.

I was supposed to go out with Carmen but I was too tired and felt sick. I was running a fever. Cold and hot all the time so Lilly and I stayed at home, both sick on the couch.
I said to Lilly maybe it's better to go see a doctor.
But she didn't want too.
That's the sad sad part of being an American... Health insurance.
Lilly hasn't got health insurance through her work and to pay it yourself it's too expensive.
(What we would pay for hospital insurance per year, an American citizen would have to pay this amount per month!)
So she rather stay sick on the couch, trying every medication she could get from the drugstore.

Since it's the weekend, going to the doctor is not an option. Besides, you always have to make an appointment with a doctor before you could see him.
Only option if you feel sick on a Saturdaynight, or a Sunday is to go to the ER.
I said I might wanna go to make sure I have no swine flu, since I am travelling to New York on Sunday for a couple of days, and I don't wanna stay in bed, sick.
Lilly said if it would make me feel better I should do it. But she wasn't going because without insurance, going to the ER could easily cost her more than a thousand dollars!

A hospital will always give you healthcare if needed, not like many of you think they only give you healthcare if you have insurance. But, you will always get the bill. And without insurance, it means you have to make a downpayment every month.
Money that you could have used for something else.

So today, I thank God for the sickfunds in Belgium who only costs us about 65 euro a year!

Anyway, to make this long story short. We both were sleeping at 9:30 pm on this Saturdaynight when we were supposed to get ready and party in Miami...
With some tylenol (good stuff) I went to sleep...

Carmen did ask me to maybe get a drink, but even though my mind said yes, my body said no.
And for me to say NO to party in Miami means I am really ill.

At Sunday morning Lilly woke me up, making handsignals she could hardly breath and wanted to go to the hospital too.
So I got up and we went to the Florida Medical Center.
We came in and first you had to fill out this form where you put down your name, address, name of the doctor and what's wrong with you.
Then you go to the registration desk and guess what the first question is they ask?
'Do you have insurance?'
I said: Yes.
Then other questions like: are you allergic to anything, how long do you have these symptoms, have you ever been pregnant, ...
Tbh I don't know why they wanna know if you were ever pregnant.. But anyways.
After these questions they put two wristbands on me, one that had my name on it (which I had to sign to confirm it) and another yellow one that said I had no allergies to any drug.
After that I had to sign many forms.
The first one was that the hospital could claim their money from you if your insurance is not willing to pay.
Then another one that said I gave them permition to examine me in this hospital and proceed with healthcare if needed.
Another form that I have no doctor in the US where they need to send a copy of my hospital visit to.
And the last form stated that everything between patient and doctor is confidential.
(I have no idea why I need to sign that, but I guess there's some insurance reason for it :)

After all the signing I had to go sit in the waiting room for my name to be called.

This lady yelled « Taaniya » So I got up to this next room.
There: another bunch of questions!
Are you pregnant? How tall or you? What's your weight? (which was not easy because she didn't know cm to ft or kg to lbs) Have you ever had surgery? Where you in Florida before? Did you had these symptoms then? And so on.
She took my temperature which was 99°F I think (so no fever anymore), measured my blood pressure (11/7) and the oxigen in my body (100%).
Then she walked me to ER room 11 said to put on the rope on the bed with the opening to the back and wait for the doctor.

This doctor came in, smelling of sigarets and while coughing/spitting on me he asked me with an Indian accent: You have flu symptoms?
I wipe his spit of my face and tell him: Yes, since Fridaynight.
Let's see your throat.
Yes your left side is swollen.
He listened to my lungs and said: "I'll have someone come in to withdraw some blood and a smear of your thoat so it's no strep."
And doctor Punjab was gone.

After 10 mins or so a nurse came in to take the smear of my throat and a young guy (I believe an assistent) was there to take some blood.
The nurse went away with the sample thing from my throat and the young guy was gonna draw some blood. Which, may I say, was the best blooddraw I ever experienced :) I didn't feel a thing, not even the needle going in!
Maybe they use thinner needles here, i don't know. But it was cool.
They also but this bandaid on my finger measuring my heartbeat and oxigen level.
The bandaid radiated some red light and I felt like E.T. phoning home. (as you can see in the picture)


Now the cool thing about the American ER is that they have your bloodresults within the hour. So the guy who took the blood gave me the remote, turned down the light and let me relax.
I watched a movie on TBS but I think after every 7 or 8 minutes of movie there were 10 minutes of commerials. And always the same commercials, ugh.
Lilly came to see me, she was in emergency room 7. They withdrew some blood from her too and she had to go for an X ray and give them a urine sample.

After about an hour the doctor came back, asking me if I spoke French or Flemish back home.
I said: Flemish.
He said: But your English is really good too.
I thought: Yes, better than yours :)
The MD told me my blood was okay and that I had pharyngitis. He said he 'd wrote a prescription for some antibiotics and said someone was gonna come to discharge me.
Lilly on the other hand waited too long to seek medical help and her throat was much worse. She couldn't eat & drink and had a hard time breathing. So she had to stay the night.

I got dressed again and waited for the person to discharge me.
Another man, who I hadn't seen before came in, introduced himself as Shane and gave me the prescription and my discharge papers.


Then, I got to the 'discharge' window, waiting for my bill.
I had a flat rate B which was 350 $
Thank God for creditcards.
I paid the 350 dollars and send the information to my sickfund in Belgium.
The prescription drugs were 12 dollars.
Haleluja to CM :)


So now I'm home ready to start packing. I won't see Lilly anymore before I leave, which is sad. But I told her if I can find a cheap ticket in the near future I'll come again and we will go out partying at Miami beach... But for now, I got a ER story to tell. But believe me, it's not at all like the series on TV, not as hectic and no gorgeous doctors....

Friday, May 15, 2009

Lobster...

Hi folks,

Today I went to the beach to have lunch with Carmen, Lilly's cousin. Because lilly is sick and in bed.
Since it was cloudy and even raining this morning I figured I didn't need sunscreen.
Because when it rains in Belgium it rains... But not in Florida! When it rains in florida it's for 30 mins and then it cleares up.
So when I got to the beach, i didn't had any sunscreen with me..... And that's why I'm a lobster now... Hopefully it will turn brown eventually and not peel. But you never know.

Lunch at the beach was really nice. I could get used to a life like this. Now if only I would win the Lottery.... :) (NOTE the picture... I'm hugging my new best friend :)

Around 5pm, after I noticed I was burning I decided to get out of the sun. And where better to go than the mall.
I went to Sawgrass mall. This is one big mall! I guess if you would walk through the whole mall you'd do the 10 miles of Antwerp. Man!

When walking around in the mall I started to feel my throat hurting... Not a good sign. Hopefully I will not get sick like Lilly.
After buying shoes my throat started to hurt too much so I drove back home and stopped at the pharmacy for some tablets to relief the pain.
(And no, my throat was not a sign to stop shopping :) I need to use my creditcard for the visa contest right?)

So now I'm home. It's a bit sad to stay in on a Fridaynigtht... I guess I will have to come back to party on a Fridaynight in Miami :)
Tomorrow I'm going out with Carmen and her friend, maybe if lilly feels better she can come too.
And Sunday is already my last day in Florida :(

Goes by way too fast!!!

Thursday, May 14, 2009

Who needs a six pack when you can get an eight pack? :)

Yesterdaymorning was a little cloudy, and as a Belgian you automaticly think it's gonna be like that all day. But not in Florida :)
The sun came out so I got to the pool to dive in and work on my tan.

After that I went to pick up lilly so we could prepare for our night out in Miami beach.
We were going to a place called Mango's. It's a bar on the famous Ocean Drive where there's a live band playing latino music and a dj playing latino & r&b in between.
It was a great place.

If you wanna see diversity, come to Miami. And I'm not talking about skin colour but about the variety of people here. Tall, short, trained, fat, old, young... (but not too young, you have to be 21 here >legal drinking age)

I tried the ocean drive cosmopolitan and two cuban mojito's Hmmmm...

The waitresses wore lingerie and you could tell they were screened by their looks and boobs.
The men wore these tight black and leppard shirts. And they could all dance. They would switch turns on dancing on the stage.

As the dj played thriller from michael jackson, this guy came on... Lilly and me were stunned.
His body was... WOW. I mean, we girls like to see men with a six pack, but this guy had an eight pack!
Probably gay, but nice to look at :P

So after some dancing with this cute Columbian, we drove back because for Lilly she had to get up to go to work...

You gotta love Miami :)

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Thank God for creditcards :)

Today I was a true american, except for the fact that I don't like hamburgers :)

I drove Lilly to work today so I had the car to goof off myself.
I was thinking about sunbathing some more but my shoulders and chest were still a little pink so I let my skin have a rest today. It was too hot anyways.
So I did what most Americans do: I went to the mall :)
'Galleria' mall is like a 20 minutes drive from Lilly's place.
I loved it... The thing in America is that the people working in the stores need to be friendly to the customers which makes shopping a lot more fun.
Not like the 'Wijnegem Shopping' salespeople, working their 8 hours. Americans make sure you got everything you need.
So God bless America and creditcards :P

Here, everything is bigger, the roads, the drinks, the meals... And everywhere there are signs to warn you so you couldn't sue them for anything. For example they put up the yellow signs "wet floor" anywhere, so you couldn't sue them when you fall.
Today I had some sushi for lunch and the sign said: 'Eating raw fish is a risk to your health'
And I'm not even talking about the ad's on the radio: Are you hit buy a car? Then hire us so we can make you rich. Call 1800 lawyer ... today.
In the mall there was this stand where you could get information about how to loose weight.... on a cookie diet :)
You gotta love the crazy Americans.... My home sweet home :)

But, to every upside there's a downside.
I saw this story about people who lost their homes due to the recession and are homeless now.
Unlike the great system in Belgium to help unemployed people, there's isn't such a thing in the US.
People can loose everything here and it's sad to here these stories about a mom and her child looking for a shelter...
There are a lot of homeless people here. You see them everywhere in the streets. It's sad...
A lot of times these people are alcoholics or drug addicts, but I kinda understand why they need to be high of something. If you have lost everything in your life and end up on the streets. People look at you like you are nothing, so you start to feel like a nobody.
It's a vicious circle.
I know, there are many homeless people who do have theirself to blame. But not everyone...

Anyway, as I was going to pick up Lilly I saw this homeless man and gave him a dollar. Maybe to ease my concious... I dunno.

Lilly and I went down to the beachside to have something to eat.
We grabbed some dinner in a place called Aruba beach, a diner right on the beach. The sun had set and dusk begun.

A perfect way to end this perfect day...

Monday, May 11, 2009

Vamos a la playa on Mothersday

Yesterday was Mothersday in the US and we (Lilly and me) went to visit her aunt near Tampa.
It was a 3,5 hours drive so I had to get up at 7.
Driving there was fun. Like living your life on the road :)
Once we arrived her family was so hospitale and friendly!
Cubans are the best :) They dind't want me to feel hungry or thirsty.
They made great food and after lunch we went to the pool near their place.
After 10 minutes i realized I needed to put on some sunscreen...
So with Baz Luhrman's lyrics @ the back of my mind I put on some sunscreen and enjoyed life.

After a short stay at the swimming pool we had dinner and at 6pm we went to a beautiful beach: Siesta Key. What better place to take a siesta than @ one of the top 10 beaches in the US?

After the sun set we got back at Lilly's aunts place and we said goodbye to thes wonderful people and drove back.

The drive back was long. We were so tired when we got home at 1am.

So today I slept in and I'm ready now to chill at the pool with my book & mp3 player untill lilly gets home around 6.

Nog goe werken he :)
Tania
x
PS I did forget my camera at home :(
Luckily Lilly lets me borrow hers!

Welcome to the United States of America

Tania's travelblog continues....

Hi y'all.

After the fun I had writing for you on my Australian trip. I figured I could do a mini blog on my USA trip.
Again, I had to pack a couple of hours before take off. Stress!!! But I made it. Apart from my camera, which is still at home on my table...
The great thing about travelling on an American airline is the fact that you can take more luggage with you. The standard is one bag of 23 kilo's per person, but since Americans see everything much bigger, you are aloud 2 bags of 23 kilo's per person :)
However, that is about to change... Due to the recesion I guess.
The airplane from Brussels to New York JFK was a lot smaller too than usual.
So it took an hour more to fly here. But after 8h20 I arrived at my second home: New York, America. :)
I turned on my cell phone and I get this great text: « Welcome to the USA »
I get in line for immigration and another stamp in my passport :)
The men at the desks look 'not to mess with' but are always friendly. Funny but they always ask me what the weather is like in your homecountry... Maybe they are addicted to the weatherchannel :)
So... I had two apples with me and needed to check the box 'are you bringing any fruits, vegetables, meats... into the country'
The guy from immigration told me I have to give my apples to customs, they're not allowed. So I ask him if I can eat it. And he said... Well, if you would eat it and give the leftover apple, that will be fine too.
So I go to customs, they see I checked the box: 'fruits & vegetables' So I tell 'em I got two apples with me.
I ask the guy if I can eat an apple. He lookes at his colleague with a smile and says: 'what do you think, can this sweet girl eat her apple'
They both smile and let me eat my apple. So one of the two men notice my t-shirt 'I'm adorable and that's enough' and says to me: you are adorable!
I get all shy, eating my apple and tell him: Thank you.
He says: why are you going to florida, why don't you stay in new york?
I tell him i'm going to see a friend in florida but will be in New York for 4 days.Than he asks me wether I'm travelling alone or with my boyfriend.
I smile and say: 'No boyfriend'
He says: 'Well can I have your number or email so i could see you when you're in new york in a couple of days?
I laugh and say: Haha, are you kidding me? :)
He: No, I think you're cute so I wanna contact you....
And then it's like time slows down and your brain is racing... 'Should I give it? Or shouldn't I?'
Well here's what my brain told me in this slow second:
'Tania, girl, for some bizar reason, American men are attracted to you. Stop analyzing why, but enjoy it'
So I gave him my number and e-mail and walked out of there with a smile. :)

Life can be schweet :P

At this time I'm waiting for my connection flight to Miami which is in 3 hours. Still a lot of time to kill, but I don't mind. I love it here... But that, my friends, is no secret to you :)

Later,
Tania, life from JFK :)